Ceremonies of Ojai by Reverend Kat

From the time I was a little girl, I have had a romantic heart and have always loved weddings! Something magical happens when two people stand in front of family and friends with open hearts and make a commitment to love.

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My Story

My professional journey has taken many twists and turns to lead me to officiating weddings and other spiritual ceremonies.

I began my work as a certified life coach just as my first marriage was ending. I felt so passionate about helping people get off to the right start in marriages that I created a pre-marital coaching program and card deck specifically for that purpose.


I have worked with hundreds of couples who were preparing to walk down the aisle. I helped them tune into each other’s hearts to share their dreams for their wedding and their life.

My couples told me that our work together not only helped them create a foundation for a lasting marriage, it also helped them create a wedding experience they loved. It removed their “wedding day stress” so they could be fully present to enjoy the days leading up to, and including, the big day itself.

I Love Weddings

This aspect of my work was so fulfilling that I was ordained by One Spirit Seminary as an Interfaith minister. I love to help couples create and experience their wedding as truly one of the best days of their lives. This is an experience that infuses their marriage relationship with deep meaning and true love.

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What I Bring to You

When couples choose me to officiate their wedding, I come with an open mind. I listen to elicit what is in their hearts that will make this most special of life's occasions a magical experience for them and their loved ones.

The couples I work with come from a wide variety of spiritual and cultural backgrounds and beliefs. The one thing they have in common is their desire to have a wedding ceremony that reflects who they are in a way they will always remember.

I have a special talent for writing a ceremony that is exactly right for each couple. I put them at ease before and during the ceremony and I make sure the experience is fun while it illuminates what is in their hearts.

There's Even More

I also offer my pre-marital coaching program and the Staying Engaged Card Deck for those who want to create a lasting foundation as a couple before walking down the aisle.

As much as I love weddings, I know there are other moments in life that cry out for a heart-based ceremony. I create ceremonies for occasions such as blessings for babies, houses and businesses.

Celebrating the life of a loved one who has passed or honoring a marriage that has come to an end are also ceremonies I create.

If you would like to know more about what I offer or to see if I am a fit for your ceremony please contact me for more details.

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I just want to tell you what an amazing job you did officiating our wedding. It was a dream come true and I cannot thank you enough! We had such an amazing time and will always remember how special the ceremony was for us.

Allison and Eric A.

Kat helped us enjoy our wedding day to the fullest! We felt prepared for the big day and Kat was a pleasure to work with. We valued her services and support immensely.

Casey and Kevin C.

Working with Kat helped us to clearly identify our shared values and vision for our life together. Using these as the focus for our wedding, Kat made the day even more significant and not just a ritual. We look back on our wedding day with great joy and see it as the foundation for our marriage. I highly recommend Kat!

Jessi and Chris G.